Comments on Dating is Warfare: I am writing this against my will.

Just want to say what a great blog you got here!

2011-09-21T22:48:59.479-07:00

Just want to say what a great blog you got here!

Glad to read an update from you. What a two years ...

2011-09-21T03:29:37.443-07:00

Glad to read an update from you. What a two years you have had. You are such a remarkably strong woman! Glad you have come to a place of peace and you have been able to move on and pursue the adventure of finding someone more of a match for you!! Keep you spirits up!

Thanks for the update and glad to hear things are moving along positively!

~

Sorry for the very late comment -- I knew about th...

2011-08-30T05:56:13.270-07:00

Sorry for the very late comment -- I knew about the breakup, but didn't see this til now. Sounds like you're doing better than fine -- very happy to hear it!

Looking forward to seeing you in my fair city soon!

~ LV

Trooper, Sorry this didn't work out. With an...

2011-08-11T14:08:34.241-07:00

Trooper,

Sorry this didn't work out. With any luck you'll find a silver lining.

I still owe you a beer, btw.

Peace,
SA

It's nice to hear from you. From reading your ...

2011-08-09T19:24:12.269-07:00

It's nice to hear from you. From reading your blog I felt a strange closeness to you. Like you, I am single and live in San Diego. Like you, I've been at war for quite some time. Like you, I've just exited a relationship. But you are much more graceful in this.

I wish you luck in your recovery, physical and emotional.

What does one do after laying down the arms and exiting the war? We should ask the veterans for some suggestions.

D

from the anonymous ass hole... no comment

2011-08-08T12:55:59.948-07:00

from the anonymous ass hole...

no comment

I haven't had time to visit any blogs in years...

2011-08-08T12:33:52.865-07:00

I haven't had time to visit any blogs in years and finally checked on you today and discovered the breakup ... I think I was expecting to see you in a wedding dress : ( But it sounds like you are doing well and have discovered what people in bad marriages already know ... being single ain't so bad. And the right guy will come along ... sorry I know it's a cliche ... but he'll come along when you least expect it.

I'm sorry you've been through physical hel...

2011-08-08T08:20:38.583-07:00

I'm sorry you've been through physical hell, but I'm not gonna say I'm sorry you and Wine Guy broke up.

It wasn't a match and I think he knew it before you did.

No matter.

Celebrate your lovely singleness. You never know, one day you may look back on it fondly and with a little bit of longing.

DT, hang in there. You have the energy, the intell...

2011-08-05T06:48:36.008-07:00

DT, hang in there. You have the energy, the intelligence, the wit, and the creativity to make things better for yourself. It may take a while to stabilize, don't I know that, but sooner or later, you'll be much better. I *definitely* recommend starting a new blog with a new name. xoxox Mimi (formerly of Sexagenarian and the City)

I have also been following you for some time, and ...

2011-08-05T04:48:43.009-07:00

I have also been following you for some time, and am delighted to see you back on here and sounding happier than you have done in a while. Sorry to hear that you and Wine Guy broke up. But looking forward to hearing about your new improved single life, and the adventures you are sure to have.

I am sorry to hear that your broke up and that you...

2011-08-04T19:20:47.020-07:00

I am sorry to hear that your broke up and that you've had such an awful few years. I can't wait to hear your new stories though.

So good to hear from you, and to hear you in more ...

2011-08-02T13:26:31.762-07:00

So good to hear from you, and to hear you in more coherent "voice" (for lack of a better term). I'm sorry to hear that you and Wine Guy are over, but when one's immediate reaction to a development like that is relief, followed by blissful enjoyment of some of the perks of the single life, then you know it's what had to happen.

I hope your surgery was successful and that you're on your way to recapturing your physical health and a new version of you.

I look forward to reading about your new adventures!

Elizabeth

You definitely had a tough year... And I hope it&#...

2011-07-28T23:49:42.362-07:00

You definitely had a tough year... And I hope it's all better from now on. I'm happy to hear that wine guy and you remain friends. And now you're on your way to new adventures. Life is full of possibilities. I wish you the best.... And definitely less pain.

Trooper, than you for this update. I have followed...

2011-07-27T23:13:56.906-07:00

Trooper, than you for this update. I have followed your blog from the beginning though I rarely comment. I certainly hope you will find relief in your new surroundings. Breaking up is hard -- as hard as finding someone, though in a different way. I often think relationships need to run their course before they can end. Please keep your readers posted on your hip problem. I hope that is on the way to resolving, because I know how horrific such pain is. I wish only good things for you.