<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post286576313647548132..comments</id><updated>2010-01-13T03:05:16.960-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Dating is Warfare: Bejeweled Christmas</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/feeds/286576313647548132/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html'/><author><name>Dating Trooper</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16295405140701372825</uri><email>datingtrooper@gmail.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>11</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2817925897073621801</id><published>2010-01-13T03:05:16.960-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-13T03:05:16.960-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Hi

For leveraging traffic from the internet, we h...</title><content type='html'>Hi&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For leveraging traffic from the internet, we have manually collected a list of quality blogs with whom we are interested in getting associated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We liked your blog http://www.datingiswarfare.com/  and are interested in having a blog post on your blog, with a backlink to our website Vlondonescorts.co.uk. We are happy to pay you for this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please let us know the cost for this association and then we can move towards next step.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sincerely,&lt;br /&gt;Vanya Grand&lt;br /&gt;Vlondonescorts.co.uk&lt;br /&gt;vanyagrand@ibibo.com</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/2817925897073621801'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/2817925897073621801'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html?showComment=1263380716960#c2817925897073621801' title=''/><author><name>Vanya</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06587111168745257242</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-286576313647548132' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/286576313647548132' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-6218917862803293182</id><published>2010-01-06T11:10:24.993-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-06T11:10:24.993-08:00</updated><title type='text'>He did a great job on the Christmas shopping!  Way...</title><content type='html'>He did a great job on the Christmas shopping!  Way to go Wine Guy!  Happy New Year to you!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/6218917862803293182'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/6218917862803293182'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html?showComment=1262805024993#c6218917862803293182' title=''/><author><name>Tasha</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06488012058593604962</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='17990992867570088141'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-286576313647548132' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/286576313647548132' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-5074263651652617322</id><published>2009-12-30T08:07:48.137-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-30T08:07:48.137-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks for the nice thoughts everyone! And, of cou...</title><content type='html'>Thanks for the nice thoughts everyone! And, of course, thanks for reading to the end :-)&lt;br /&gt;Picture now posted!&lt;br /&gt;Happy New Year to you all</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/5074263651652617322'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/5074263651652617322'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html?showComment=1262189268137#c5074263651652617322' title=''/><author><name>Dating Trooper</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16295405140701372825</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='03733784864332733460'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-286576313647548132' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/286576313647548132' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-1314685659923128953</id><published>2009-12-29T19:06:52.965-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-29T19:06:52.965-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Well, I'm very happy about this.  It's all a very ...</title><content type='html'>Well, I&amp;#39;m very happy about this.  It&amp;#39;s all a very good sign -- on both sides.  I think I&amp;#39;ll have to do a post about my first Christmas with Funny Guy (which, as you know, Loverville was present for!).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Okay, I&amp;#39;ve gotta take time away from the novel to write the post.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, HAPPY NEW YEAR to you &amp;amp; Wine Guy, and I&amp;#39;m really glad to read this post.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;xx</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/1314685659923128953'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/1314685659923128953'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html?showComment=1262142412965#c1314685659923128953' title=''/><author><name>mimi of sexagenarian and the city</name><uri>http://sexagenarian07.wordpress.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-286576313647548132' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/286576313647548132' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-6154362567588635053</id><published>2009-12-28T17:36:50.775-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-28T17:36:50.775-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Of course we want to see pictures :)  

Merry Chri...</title><content type='html'>Of course we want to see pictures :)  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Merry Christmas, and I am so very happy for you.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/6154362567588635053'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/6154362567588635053'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html?showComment=1262050610775#c6154362567588635053' title=''/><author><name>Deidre</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14993934232617420348</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-286576313647548132' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/286576313647548132' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-3344616354350213187</id><published>2009-12-28T07:08:55.643-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-28T07:08:55.643-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Yay!  Glad you had a good Xmas.  Yes, it's silly h...</title><content type='html'>Yay!  Glad you had a good Xmas.  Yes, it&amp;#39;s silly how much pretty sparkly things in boxes can mean - I totally get it.  But they sure are fun sometimes - and how sweet that he was so concerned about you getting something you like.  &lt;br /&gt;Merry merry!  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Elizabeth</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/3344616354350213187'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/3344616354350213187'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html?showComment=1262012935643#c3344616354350213187' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-286576313647548132' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/286576313647548132' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-5175821866461543035</id><published>2009-12-27T15:29:18.887-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-27T15:29:18.887-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Glad you updated the blog.  I understand what you ...</title><content type='html'>Glad you updated the blog.  I understand what you mean about changing---you are the one who is doing the changing, and it does positively impact your relationship.  I think your attitude is really great---Happy Holidays!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/5175821866461543035'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/5175821866461543035'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html?showComment=1261956558887#c5175821866461543035' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-286576313647548132' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/286576313647548132' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-4364141679496026716</id><published>2009-12-26T21:22:50.335-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-26T21:22:50.335-08:00</updated><title type='text'>@cjdubwright, great comment and glad you made it b...</title><content type='html'>@cjdubwright, great comment and glad you made it because I probably haven&amp;#39;t come right and said it. To be clear, I wholeheartedly understand that I am the only one who can do the changing. And that most of our conflict (though not all) is due to my own &amp;quot;stuff.&amp;quot; I did some real soul searching this year and have come to a few major positive self realizations. It was hard to face my own blame but now that I&amp;#39;m through it, it is quite  liberating. Especially when i can so obviously see how much my behavior can affect how people (especially WG) react to me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All this to say, I totally agree with you.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/4364141679496026716'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/4364141679496026716'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html?showComment=1261891370335#c4364141679496026716' title=''/><author><name>Dating Trooper</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16295405140701372825</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='03733784864332733460'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-286576313647548132' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/286576313647548132' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-6134340265821922104</id><published>2009-12-26T19:51:34.417-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-26T19:51:34.417-08:00</updated><title type='text'>The first piece of jewelry of a long series I am s...</title><content type='html'>The first piece of jewelry of a long series I am sure... Merry Christmas to you!!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/6134340265821922104'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/6134340265821922104'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html?showComment=1261885894417#c6134340265821922104' title=''/><author><name>Dark Cloud Nine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02958348600372118224</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='13385859770181115584'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-286576313647548132' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/286576313647548132' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-9026985045937171068</id><published>2009-12-26T18:29:38.169-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-26T18:29:38.169-08:00</updated><title type='text'>YES!!!  Updated blog. I could not wait to see if y...</title><content type='html'>YES!!!  Updated blog. I could not wait to see if you were engaged.  Seeing as I am totally hooked on the blog and the updates.  But I have to tell you, it is not him that is changing his way of thinking.  It is you that has finally started to come around.  wg will always be the way that he is.  Whether it is tomorrow or 10 years from now.  Please do not think that you have him finally coming around to your way of thinking because it is not so.  I would hate to think that you think you can change him after being married, babies, etc...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;cjdubwright</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/9026985045937171068'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/9026985045937171068'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html?showComment=1261880978169#c9026985045937171068' title=''/><author><name>cjdubwright</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-286576313647548132' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/286576313647548132' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-756731635573408226</id><published>2009-12-26T12:05:16.553-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-26T12:05:16.553-08:00</updated><title type='text'>What a lovely story!  Yes, would love to see a pic...</title><content type='html'>What a lovely story!  Yes, would love to see a pic -- and yes, some of us DO read to the end!  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Happy Holidays!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/756731635573408226'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/286576313647548132/comments/default/756731635573408226'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html?showComment=1261857916553#c756731635573408226' title=''/><author><name>Loverville</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15517119973142990816</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11457151029029346995'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/12/bejeweled-christmas.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-286576313647548132' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/286576313647548132' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>