<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post2363958453725338953..comments</id><updated>2009-09-09T08:37:25.019-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Dating is Warfare: List of Laments</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/feeds/2363958453725338953/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html'/><author><name>Dating Trooper</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16295405140701372825</uri><email>datingtrooper@gmail.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>11</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2196672477946707277</id><published>2009-09-09T08:37:25.019-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-09T08:37:25.019-07:00</updated><title type='text'>There are few things worse than being in a great r...</title><content type='html'>There are few things worse than being in a great relationship, that you know is great, than having everyone that met after you get engaged and have babies. It feels like everyone is looking at you guys. It sucks.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh, here is another thing that sucks, finally getting married, going thru infertility issues and getting invited to baby showers every other minute!! We had a happy ending but still.... there was some rough moments.  jess</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/2196672477946707277'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/2196672477946707277'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html?showComment=1252510645019#c2196672477946707277' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2363958453725338953' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/2363958453725338953' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-5417575616667168684</id><published>2009-09-01T09:35:23.217-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T09:35:23.217-07:00</updated><title type='text'>And: your pal's Cubbies are stinking.

I have a $1...</title><content type='html'>And: your pal&amp;#39;s Cubbies are stinking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have a $10 gift card for Taco Surf. Let&amp;#39;s go, chow down and be distracted from our laments for awhile. :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/5417575616667168684'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/5417575616667168684'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html?showComment=1251822923217#c5417575616667168684' title=''/><author><name>Mendoza Line</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2363958453725338953' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/2363958453725338953' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2524318469801560248</id><published>2009-08-31T17:54:55.292-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-31T17:54:55.292-07:00</updated><title type='text'>oh dt i know that feeling, when you can so easily ...</title><content type='html'>oh dt i know that feeling, when you can so easily list all the things that are better for other people than they are for you.  and it tends to strike in the middle of the night...yes...or with PMS, which perhaps you were experiencing.  i&amp;#39;m sorry we couldn&amp;#39;t all respond &amp;amp; comfort you when the attack was on, but hey at least you wrote it all up.   hey imagine what life would be like if you didn&amp;#39;t have Wine Guy &amp;amp; Luna!  and on the positive side, Halloween is coming in only *two* months, so it&amp;#39;s time to start thinking what Luna will wear this year!  at any rate, like everyone else, i wish you all the best &amp;amp; hope you can store all the love up and use it again when you need it.&lt;br /&gt;-- mimi</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/2524318469801560248'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/2524318469801560248'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html?showComment=1251766495292#c2524318469801560248' title=''/><author><name>mimi of 'sexagenarian and the city'</name><uri>http://sexagenarian07.wordpress.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2363958453725338953' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/2363958453725338953' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-190319362016353507</id><published>2009-08-31T13:43:39.955-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-31T13:43:39.955-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Hey Sweat Pea,

Of course I know I can do nothing ...</title><content type='html'>Hey Sweat Pea,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course I know I can do nothing to help, but when you mentioned getting &amp;quot;fatter&amp;quot; while healing I of course had to go through my mental rolidex of advice. ;-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So here it is:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Swimming.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Swimming is my new obsession, its easy on joints and even if you have limited mobility with your lower half, doing a &amp;quot;freestyle&amp;quot; swim with only your arms will get your heart rate up and burn some serious calories.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also, being in water always helps me to clear my head. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just a thought...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;xoxo</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/190319362016353507'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/190319362016353507'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html?showComment=1251751419955#c190319362016353507' title=''/><author><name>The Big Girl Blog!</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02860514520067890741</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08851092557746873494'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2363958453725338953' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/2363958453725338953' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-6716127443022392678</id><published>2009-08-31T10:48:21.126-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-31T10:48:21.126-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Jesus Christ. All I can say is ::hugefuckingintern...</title><content type='html'>Jesus Christ. All I can say is ::hugefuckinginternethug::&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You need a vaction</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/6716127443022392678'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/6716127443022392678'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html?showComment=1251740901126#c6716127443022392678' title=''/><author><name>Amanda</name><uri>http://datingismiserable.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2363958453725338953' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/2363958453725338953' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-61326782277606589</id><published>2009-08-30T08:49:36.958-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-30T08:49:36.958-07:00</updated><title type='text'>ugh, sorry to hear about all this. Glad to hear yo...</title><content type='html'>ugh, sorry to hear about all this. Glad to hear you are feeling a bit better now. Let&amp;#39;s talk soon, although I hear your voice ALL THE TIME around here (17. seconds. behind....) ok, I know cryptic, inside humor doesn&amp;#39;t belong on blogs!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/61326782277606589'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/61326782277606589'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html?showComment=1251647376958#c61326782277606589' title=''/><author><name>kristin</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2363958453725338953' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/2363958453725338953' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-5849780249610157423</id><published>2009-08-30T08:22:34.642-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-30T08:22:34.642-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks for the commiserating everyone. I'm feeling...</title><content type='html'>Thanks for the commiserating everyone. I&amp;#39;m feeling a bit better - the weekend always helps!&lt;br /&gt;Anon, to answer your ? about my hip - yes, it is a congential problem (hip dysplasia, you know, like a German Shepherd). They check newborns for severe hip problems when they&amp;#39;re born, but mine was minor enough not to be noticed until I started having lots of pain in my 30s. I decided to have corrective surgery to save my hips before they got too bad rather than just let them deteriorate until I need a hip replacement. Nice options, huh? Hopefully it will have been the right decision in the end.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/5849780249610157423'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/5849780249610157423'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html?showComment=1251645754642#c5849780249610157423' title=''/><author><name>Dating Trooper</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16295405140701372825</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='03733784864332733460'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2363958453725338953' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/2363958453725338953' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2195502687697204190</id><published>2009-08-29T23:29:27.591-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-29T23:29:27.591-07:00</updated><title type='text'>DT, you may have written it before, but what is th...</title><content type='html'>DT, you may have written it before, but what is this hip problem you had surgery for? Is it congenital? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sorry for the bad healing news; health is of course conspicuous by its absence, and it must be terribly frustrating to be the one who&amp;#39;s unlucky enough to get the rare bone-growth problem. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--PT</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/2195502687697204190'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/2195502687697204190'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html?showComment=1251613767591#c2195502687697204190' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2363958453725338953' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/2363958453725338953' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-4081252117590501441</id><published>2009-08-29T14:20:54.926-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-29T14:20:54.926-07:00</updated><title type='text'>BIG hug to you, and hope things turn around for yo...</title><content type='html'>BIG hug to you, and hope things turn around for you soon!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/4081252117590501441'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/4081252117590501441'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html?showComment=1251580854926#c4081252117590501441' title=''/><author><name>Loverville</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15517119973142990816</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11457151029029346995'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2363958453725338953' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/2363958453725338953' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-8638659396002262667</id><published>2009-08-28T07:46:18.097-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-28T07:46:18.097-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Ouch!  That's quite a list for two weeks!  I hope ...</title><content type='html'>Ouch!  That&amp;#39;s quite a list for two weeks!  I hope that things improve soon!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/8638659396002262667'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/8638659396002262667'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html?showComment=1251470778097#c8638659396002262667' title=''/><author><name>Jaclyn</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06800071653449114953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2363958453725338953' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/2363958453725338953' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-3882083809179713112</id><published>2009-08-28T06:10:14.163-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-28T06:10:14.163-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh jeez.  I'm sorry you're having such bad luck w/...</title><content type='html'>Oh jeez.  I&amp;#39;m sorry you&amp;#39;re having such bad luck w/ healing, and that life&amp;#39;s junk is piling up on you.  That stinks.  No easy answers for any of it but sometimes plain old wallowing for a while works for me.  :-) &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hope the weekend brings a few laughs...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Elizabeth</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/3882083809179713112'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/2363958453725338953/comments/default/3882083809179713112'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html?showComment=1251465014163#c3882083809179713112' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.datingiswarfare.com/2009/08/list-of-laments.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9100957653847131636.post-2363958453725338953' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9100957653847131636/posts/default/2363958453725338953' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>